Two kids in their wedding outfits peeking out from behind the curtains

Kids at weddings

My top 6 tips for photographing little ones on the big day.

We don’t need to scare the babies!

On your wedding day, I promise you’ll be grateful to have a photographer who speaks kid, toddler and baby. Your own little ones or kids in the wedding party are always, ALWAYS on their own program. I’ve been known to get even the most reluctant ones to warm up to me, and I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve.

It’s a fine balance between being aware of their comfort zone, not getting too in their face, and knowing when to back off. Here are some of my hot tips for photographing kids on wedding days.

1

Don’t be too cool for bribery

If the parents are game (always ask first!), candy bribery is always welcome.

A little guy grinning beside the dessert table
A little one in a green dress exploring the candlelit reception tableA laughing baby in a flat cap held up high
2

Don’t make a big deal of the photos

Think less “sit here, do that” and more “look at this pretty flower, ooooh I saw a butterfly.” Let the photographer guide the way.

A little girl peeking through the old barn doors
The flower girl giving a thumbs up from the bridesmaid’s side
A baby in a little bow tie beaming at the camera
3

Tackle kid photos first

Always try to tackle kid photos first, before they lose their cool. If they’re already losing it, do other photos first, and the moment they pull it together, try again with them!

The flower girl and ring bearer standing together by the pond
The flower girl running through the field with her little cameraA smiling flower girl in a pink dress on the garden bridge
4

Catch the pout, the yawn, the tears

In the moment it may not be fun for those involved, but it’ll be memorable and likely pretty cute after!

The bride hugging a little girl close in the field
A little boy mid leap while the bride laughsA little girl giggling during the ceremony
5

Get down to their level

Spend some time during getting ready playing peekaboo, chatting or making silly faces, all things that don’t involve pointing a camera at them. By the time photos roll around, they’ll be more comfortable with a camera pointed their way, and you’ll create more memorable images with your new little buddies!

The bride crouching down as a little boy hands her a sunflower
A guest kneeling to help a toddler with her flower basketA guest bending down to say hello to the flower girl
6

When in doubt, fart jokes

Fart, poop and smelly feet jokes for the win. Always. 🏆

A bridesmaid and a little boy in fits of giggles
A little guy in a grey suit sharing a laughTwo little ring bearers grinning on the steps

Remember to have fun and be ready for anything!

A little boy in a tux busting a move on the light up dance floor, flashing a peace sign
The ring bearer leaping for joy as he heads down the aisle
A little one held high on the dance floor under the string lightsThe bride laughing with a baby at the reception table
A little flower girl in her flower crown with the ring bearer, in black and white

Little ones in your wedding party?

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